NicMar 34 minThe Sacred CorridorIn my Tantric practice, something I try to do daily, I put an emphasis on engaging in a dialogue between my second and fourth chakras: my...
NicJan 173 minThe Divine Feminine and the CockIdeally, we are all a beautiful mix of the masculine and the feminine, the yin and the yang, in our bodies. Because of cultural norms and...
NicJan 93 minNo-Fap and Semen Retention: Worth It?I guess it’s been a couple of years now since I started seeing YouTube videos on the No-Fap movement and the benefits of semen retention....
NicJan 73 minDaily Mindful Erotic PracticeI’m going to tell you what I did this morning. Waking up, I immediately thought about the fact that during the holidays my mindful erotic...
NicDec 9, 20212 minWhole Body Self-PleasureIn my experience counseling men about sex, when asked about their masturbation practice they usually respond by saying that they do it...
NicDec 2, 20213 minConnecting Pain & PleasureSo, I did something a lot of us probably do when we’re not really paying attention to our bodies: I over-exerted myself during a session...
NicOct 7, 20214 minFren-Play: My Morning MeditationI love working with my Tarot deck to jump-start morning reflection after I’ve made my coffee (naked, of course) and settled myself in a...
NicAug 17, 20202 minCock-Cuddling: A Self-Care PracticeI recently took an online class from the eminent sexologist and founder of Body Electric, Joseph Kramer that rocked my world in many...
NicNov 26, 20193 minBody Prayers: Reclaiming the SacredIf you’re searching this website you probably already know that we live in a sex-negative society and throughout our lives we’ve been...
NicJun 10, 20194 minThe Art of NoticingSomatic sex education is about learning the art of noticing. Noticing what? Primarily, we teach the art of noticing body sensations....
NicMay 30, 20193 minI want to be more vulnerable...There seems to be a shared desire amongst men now, at least with many of the clients that I’ve been working with over the last few...
NicMay 15, 20193 minMindful Erotic PracticeIn perusing this website, you may have seen in the ‘Services’ menu a mention of Mindful Erotic Practice. This refers to our approach to a...
NicMay 10, 20193 minMay is Masturbation Month!I don’t know who designated it and frankly I don’t care…I just know that in sexological circles and in the sex positive community, May...
NicMay 9, 20193 minDiscovering the Male Pelvic FloorAs I began exploring my own body during assignments and classes in the Somatic Sex Education certificate program I was more than mildly...
NicMay 2, 20192 minSo what exactly is Somatic Sex Education?Sexological Bodywork and its first cousin Somatic Sex Education are both relatively new modalities developed to help people become more...
NicApr 19, 20193 minHow Eating a Grape Can Change Your Sex Life!Have you ever heard of ‘mindful eating’? Mindful eating is an exercise that is taught and experienced in general courses in mindfulness...
NicApr 19, 20192 minMy Sexual Manifesto(In the following statement, I define Eros as the sexual life-force that we energize through our practice as Somatic Sex Educators. Eros...