Nic
The Sacred Corridor
In my Tantric practice, something I try to do daily, I put an emphasis on engaging in a dialogue between my second and fourth chakras: my...
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Nic
- Jan 17
- 3 min
The Divine Feminine and the Cock
Ideally, we are all a beautiful mix of the masculine and the feminine, the yin and the yang, in our bodies. Because of cultural norms and...
Nic
- Jan 9
- 3 min
No-Fap and Semen Retention: Worth It?
I guess it’s been a couple of years now since I started seeing YouTube videos on the No-Fap movement and the benefits of semen retention....
Nic
- Jan 6
- 3 min
Daily Mindful Erotic Practice
I’m going to tell you what I did this morning. Waking up, I immediately thought about the fact that during the holidays my mindful erotic...
Nic
- Dec 9, 2021
- 2 min
Whole Body Self-Pleasure
In my experience counseling men about sex, when asked about their masturbation practice they usually respond by saying that they do it...
Nic
- Dec 2, 2021
- 3 min
Connecting Pain & Pleasure
So, I did something a lot of us probably do when we’re not really paying attention to our bodies: I over-exerted myself during a session...
Nic
- Oct 7, 2021
- 4 min
Fren-Play: My Morning Meditation
I love working with my Tarot deck to jump-start morning reflection after I’ve made my coffee (naked, of course) and settled myself in a...
Nic
- Aug 17, 2020
- 2 min
Cock-Cuddling: A Self-Care Practice
I recently took an online class from the eminent sexologist and founder of Body Electric, Joseph Kramer that rocked my world in many...
Nic
- Nov 26, 2019
- 3 min
Body Prayers: Reclaiming the Sacred
If you’re searching this website you probably already know that we live in a sex-negative society and throughout our lives we’ve been...
Nic
- Jun 10, 2019
- 4 min
The Art of Noticing
Somatic sex education is about learning the art of noticing. Noticing what? Primarily, we teach the art of noticing body sensations....
Nic
- May 30, 2019
- 3 min
I want to be more vulnerable...
There seems to be a shared desire amongst men now, at least with many of the clients that I’ve been working with over the last few...
Nic
- May 15, 2019
- 3 min
Mindful Erotic Practice
In perusing this website, you may have seen in the ‘Services’ menu a mention of Mindful Erotic Practice. This refers to our approach to a...
Nic
- May 10, 2019
- 3 min
May is Masturbation Month!
I don’t know who designated it and frankly I don’t care…I just know that in sexological circles and in the sex positive community, May...
Nic
- May 9, 2019
- 3 min
Discovering the Male Pelvic Floor
As I began exploring my own body during assignments and classes in the Somatic Sex Education certificate program I was more than mildly...
Nic
- May 2, 2019
- 2 min
So what exactly is Somatic Sex Education?
Sexological Bodywork and its first cousin Somatic Sex Education are both relatively new modalities developed to help people become more...
Nic
- Apr 19, 2019
- 3 min
How Eating a Grape Can Change Your Sex Life!
Have you ever heard of ‘mindful eating’? Mindful eating is an exercise that is taught and experienced in general courses in mindfulness...
Nic
- Apr 19, 2019
- 2 min
My Sexual Manifesto
(In the following statement, I define Eros as the sexual life-force that we energize through our practice as Somatic Sex Educators. Eros...